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I’M A SURVIVOR!


Sebel..!! hidup yang menurut kita lempeng-lempeng aja ternyata gak bebas dari masalah. Tenang.. biar bisa bertahan ada aturan mainnya, dong…
1.       JANGAN PANIK
Panik itu bisa bikin urusan secuil jadi keliatan sebesar gajah, coba deh, tetap berpikir jernih dan positif. Jangan langsung panik atau menyerah pada keadaan. Kalau kita memasrahkan diri sambil terus berusaha, bantuan pasti datang…

2.       DIRI SENDIRI DULU
Bukannya egois, tapi coba pikir bagaimana kita bisa sepenuhnya membantu orang lain saat kita sendiri sedang bermasalah? Tapi.. pastikan dulu kita selamat dari bahaya.


3.       CARI TEMAN
Tiba-tiba tersesat saat pergi keluar kota sendiri? Bingung boleh asal jangan kelewatan. Terlihat makin bingung malah akan mengundang orang jahat untuk ”memanfaatkan” kita. Cari orang sekitar untuk membantu kita. Saat seperti ini, hafal nomor-nomor telepon penting (orang terdekat, polisi, pemadam kebakaran) berguna banget!
4.       SEGERA ATASI
Kalau masalah sudah di depan mata, buruan atasi dan jangan ditunda-tunda.
5.       KREATIF, DONG!
Namanya darurat, mungkin kita gak siap alat untuk mengatasi keadaan. Lihat keadaan sekitar. Coba gunakan barang-barang yang ada untuk melindungi diri. Hairspray atau parfum yang ada dalam tas bisa beralih fungsi jadi alat untuk megusir penjahat.
6.       LARI…!!!
Kadang lari sari masalah boleh juga dilakukan demi menghindari masalah lebih besar. Daripada terus beradu mulut dengan teman yang harinya sedang “panas” kadang ada baiknya menghindar sebentar. Biarkan hati kita dan dia sama-sama tenang supaya bisa menyelesaikan masalah dengan baik.
7.       UKUR KEMAMPUAN
Gak semua hal harus kita selesaikan sendiri. Gak perlu malu kalau misalnya memang gak kuat untuk memindahkan lemari saat beres-beres kamar. Minta bantuan dong.

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